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A Fun Guide to Selecting Your Wedding Vendors

Updated: Mar 17


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Planning a wedding can feel like an exciting rollercoaster ride! The excitement, the joy, and the occasional stress (we see you, last-minute decisions!). One of the most important steps in your wedding planning journey is selecting the right vendors. But how do you choose?


Here’s your fun-filled guide to picking the perfect wedding vendors.


1. Start with Your Vision

What’s your wedding vibe? Are you imagining a boho beach wedding or something cozy and intimate? Knowing your vision will help you choose vendors who align with your style and can help make your dreams a reality.


2. Do Your Research (And Have Fun With It!)

The internet is your best friend during this stage. Start by browsing websites, Instagram, Pinterest, and wedding blogs for inspiration. This is where you get to go wild with ideas! Save pictures of floral arrangements, cakes, and photography

styles that catch your eye. Don’t forget to look up reviews and testimonials—real

couples’ experiences can tell you a lot about a vendor’s work and reliability.

Pro Tip: Don’t get caught in a Pinterest hole. It’s easy to get overwhelmed with

ideas—keep your vision in mind and stay focused!


3. Set Your Budget

Ah, the tricky part. Budgeting for your vendors can feel like a balancing act. You

want the best of the best, but you also need to stay within your financial comfort

zone. Start by prioritizing your must-haves (like your photographer or the perfect

venue), and then allocate your budget accordingly. This will give you a clearer

picture of what’s realistic and help you avoid overspending.


4. Ask for Recommendations

Word of mouth is gold! Chat with friends, family, and fellow newlyweds to see

who they loved working with. Referrals from people you trust can lead you to

hidden gems. Plus, hearing about someone else's experience will help you

understand what to expect from your vendors.


5. Meet with Your Top Picks

Once you’ve narrowed down your options, it’s time to meet in person (or over

Zoom!). Whether it’s a photographer, florist, or caterer, you’ll want to vibe with

them on a personal level. This is your chance to ask questions, hear about their

experience, and discuss your wedding day vision. It’s also the perfect time to see

if your personalities click—after all, you’ll be spending a lot of time with them

leading up to the wedding.

Questions to Ask:

  • How many weddings do you book per year?

  • What’s your style or approach to (insert vendor type)?

  • Can you provide references from previous couples?


6. Trust Your Gut

Here’s where the magic happens: trust your intuition. If you feel excited,

comfortable, and confident in a vendor, chances are they’re the right fit.

Weddings are emotional, and you want to work with people who make you feel

supported and taken care of every step of the way.


7. Check Their Availability

Nothing’s worse than finding the perfect vendor only to realize they’re already

booked for your wedding date. Don’t wait too long to book—great vendors tend

to get snapped up fast! Make sure they’re available and discuss contracts and

payment schedules up front to avoid any surprises.


8. Sign on the Dotted Line

Once you've chosen your dream team, it’s time to make it official! Read through

contracts carefully and make sure everything is clear—services, pricing, and

cancellation policies. Make sure you understand any deadlines and keep a copy

for your records.


9. Keep Communication Open

Great communication is key to a stress-free wedding day. Stay in touch with your

vendors and keep them updated on any changes or new ideas. A quick check-in

can make all the difference in the world when it comes to smooth event planning.


10. Have Fun & Trust the Process!

Wedding planning is an adventure, and picking your vendors should be part of the

fun! Trust the experts you’ve chosen to do what they do best. Enjoy the process,

stay flexible, and remember—this is YOUR day, and it will be amazing no matter

what!


Let’s Get Planning!

Selecting your wedding vendors doesn’t have to be stressful. When you know

what you want, do your research, and trust your instincts, you’re sure to find a

dream team that will make your wedding day unforgettable. Here’s to finding the

perfect vendors and making memories that will last a lifetime. Cheers to love,

laughter, and happily ever after!

 
 
 

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